In You Just Don’t Understand: Women and Men in Conversation, linguist Deborah Tannen examines how differences in conversational style between men and women often lead to misinterpretation and frustration. Drawing on years of research, she explores contrasts such as “rapport-talk” versus “report-talk,” patterns of interruption, and approaches to problem-solving, revealing how gendered communication norms can both connect people and create distance. With clarity and insight, Tannen offers strategies for fostering mutual understanding and more effective dialogue.
Technical details:
• Pages: 336 (trade paperback edition)
• Publication year: 1991 (trade paperback edition)
• Publisher: Ballantine Books
• Language: English